Got this idea to write about choosing the right partner because I have my first degree cousin (she’s living somewhere in Mindanao with her parents), a girl, 43 year old who’s not yet married and don’t even have a boyfriend this time. I was wondering what might be her reason why she doesn’t have yet a boyfriend. I asked her about that thing and she just answered me with a smile and said, “nobody passed my standards couz”. Gosh! I responded to her. There are millions of men out there. In the remote possibility that you meet each one of them, you’ll have to deal with millions of different personalities. If there is a potential partner on your horizon, you first have to figure out what kind of a man he is. She just nodded her head and sigh!!!
Well well well... It’s her life and I have nothing to do with it. It’s her choice to be forever single or what?..
It is often said that women are very idealistic to the point that they seek perfection in their men. It is true that many women have high standards (perhaps because they have substantial accomplishments) and some of them even hope to meet and marry superman. If you’re one of the women who have been waiting so long for the “perfect man,” bear in mind that you will never find him. Open your mind to the reality that Mr. Perfect does not exist. Just like any human being, each man has his own set of strengths and weaknesses. You should be glad that even though he’s not perfect, he still has the potential to improve and, just like you, he is worthy of love.
Well well well... It’s her life and I have nothing to do with it. It’s her choice to be forever single or what?..
It is often said that women are very idealistic to the point that they seek perfection in their men. It is true that many women have high standards (perhaps because they have substantial accomplishments) and some of them even hope to meet and marry superman. If you’re one of the women who have been waiting so long for the “perfect man,” bear in mind that you will never find him. Open your mind to the reality that Mr. Perfect does not exist. Just like any human being, each man has his own set of strengths and weaknesses. You should be glad that even though he’s not perfect, he still has the potential to improve and, just like you, he is worthy of love.
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aptly said, i have been severly hurt the first time, and the next ones werent as worst as the first.ugh, i could still feel it, the first one, it hurts till now.
Well said. There is not a single person on earth that is perfect. Now finding someone that is perfect for me...that is a different thing.
It is vital to find a compatible partner for a healthy long term relationship.
Perfect for you is different than being perfect overall:)
Have a very good day!
hello Imelda! thanks for the comments and feel sorry for what u've gone through in ur lovelife... move forward girl :)
hello Dorothy!! thank u for following and for the comment.... I love reading your post too... see u there... muaaah :)
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